Blog Post 10
Dreams are important. When I was dealing with my mother’s illness, death, and later carrying out her last requests, I did not dream. Three years when I would go to work, come home to care for her, and then work the next day. No dreams and no writing. It was horrible. I worried if I would ever dream or write again. But she was my priority and I’m glad I made the right choice. Sometimes in life our minds are so full of reality, there just isn’t room for nonsense and dreams.
I think this week I have turned philosophical. I have to admit it is time to give up on a few of my dreams. Now that I’m 67 and retired, the dream of earning my PhD is over. I have an EdS and it is more than I need to putter around and do as I please. My son has a doctorate degree, so one Doctor Biery in the family is enough.
I no longer dream of getting a big publishing contract. When my friend Pat told us to publish on Kindle it was a green light for me. No more submissions, chasing editors, or twisting my stories to fit some formula. I love to write, and though I came close a couple of times to being published by a mid-level publisher, the most I can boast of is a single title by a now defunct small press. Abandoning that dream hasn’t kept me from writing or publishing, and I do like KDP’s 70% formula. Two dollars seems like a fortune to earn compared to the fifty-five cents per book I received from my publisher. I did have one title, The Milch Bride, on one of the KDP genre best-seller lists for nearly three months. So now my dream is to be the number one best-seller on one of the Kindle lists. At least it seems less impossible than my old dream.
I no longer dream of being the 109 pounds I was on my wedding day. I exercise four or five days a week, mainly swimming laps. This morning I swam 80 laps in two hours at the hotel pool (not an Olympic size pool for sure). I was exhausted but pleased. No thinner, no lighter, but pleased that I had tried my best. I know it can’t hurt. Of course the older and rounder I become, the younger, thinner, and prettier my heroine’s become. I notice most of them are getting taller and smarter too. Go alter-egos.
I wrote on the new book after swimming and posted 1386 words in Camp Nanowrimo. Wrote some more when we came back home, but will just add it to tomorrow’s count. I am going to try to line edit Chapter one in the finished novel and then to bed.
Oh, and I blogged for the tenth day in a row.
I haven’t given up dreaming, I’ve just toned them down a little. Still dream of a one story house beside a lake in East Tennessee. Need to buy another lottery ticket tomorrow for that one. But I have a wonderful husband, two great children, three super grand children, and a lot of books for sale on amazon. My dream is to write and publish many more.
Check them out on Amazon at J.R.Biery
What are some of your dreams?
Great blog post, Janet. I admire your tenacity with your writing. You are a published writer. That’s an awesome dream come true!
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Kay, sorry not to see your note on here. Love you for your encouragement. Persistence I have, but still waiting for a big breakthrough. You should be putting your work up as well. You’re a very talented writer.
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